Little Maddison embodies all the fragility and beauty of life after a much too premature birth that caused a roller coaster of emotions for her parents, both overwhelmed with happiness and bereaved by the death of her twin sister.
The 8-month-old spent the first five months of her life in hospital.
It's a small miracle, she's impressive , says Mandy Tremblay, proud of her 8-month-old daughter Maddison.
Sitting upright on her father , the child with the curious look does not portend signs of prematurity or health problems. And yet, she comes a long way.
“It leaves marks. She is better, but we have a long way to go before we can live well with it, ”admits the mother, who is an intensive care nurse. Until you've been there, you don't know what it is. »
Like a 'bomb '
For this couple from Chibougamau, in northern Quebec, the past year has given way to great joys, but also great sorrows. Pregnant with twin girls, the 33-year-old woman received a “bomb” during the midterm ultrasound, at 20 weeks of pregnancy.
Her cervix was thinned and already dilated. As soon as they arrived at the Center hospitalier de l'Université Laval, in Quebec, the prognosis was grim.
“We were told: 'you are going to lose your daughters, they are not viable' says the father, Mathieu Marceau.
For this “down to earth” couple, there was no question of forcing things.
“ We always said to ourselves: “we will give them a chance, but we don’t want to fight hard. Not to the detriment of their health”, », stresses the automotive adviser.
Your world is falling apart »
A battery of tests confirmed the babies were healthy, and emergency strapping was done to close the cervix. But after three weeks, work resumed. The chances of survival were then 30%.
“We can't be ready for this. The doctors speak, but you no longer hear. You just try to hold on to the percentage, but your world falls apart,” says the 36-year-old father. the best possible care. Maddison and Olivia were born on November 23, 2021, at 23 weeks and 3 days pregnant.
The due date was March 19, 2022. Fortunately, the little ones who weighed just 600 grams (1.3 lbs) were breathing on their own. Maddison, however, had more difficulty than her older sister.
“Olivia was scoring. She opened her eyes after three days, says Mr. Marceau.
Letting go of a child
However, after six days, everything changed in the space of 30 minutes.
“His intestines were all necrotic,” explains the mother. It would have been relentless. We made that decision for her, not for us. We let her go.
“ What was hard in our case was that we lost the best baby. You keep believing for the other baby, but part of you is really scared.
Maddison Marceau's parents had to wait a month and a half before they could take her in their arms, in order to to avoid infection.
Snakes and Ladders
After three months, doctors confirmed that Maddison was “out of the woods”.
“It's like a game of snakes and ladders. You think you've reached the end, and you fall back to the first box, compares Mr. Marceau. In the morning she is fine, and in the afternoon she crashes. It's been like that for five months.” On April 15, the family finally returned home. Gavage tube, oxygen, medication: the reality of the premature baby continues to follow them on a daily basis. However, Maddison does not suggest any disability or major after-effects. “It is a miracle that she is so healthy, thinks Mr. Tremblay. We have a tragic story, but miraculous at the same time. We cling to the fact that there could be two of us, but there are three of us. »
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Katrine Johns has been a reporter on the news desk since 2013. Before that she wrote about young adolescence and family dynamics for Styles and was the legal affairs correspondent for the Metro desk. Before joining The Gal Post, Katrine Johns worked as a staff writer at the Village Voice and a freelancer for Newsday, The Wall Street Journal, GQ and Mirabella. To get in touch, contact me through my firstname.lastname@example.org 1-800-268-7128